We’re not your typical dating app.
No endless swiping.
No exhausting chat threads.
Just real people, real dates, real experiences.
It’s that simple—just show up and date!
What we’re solving.
His perspective.
No more wasting time on endless chats—only to be ghosted or stood up.
Only invest in dates where both people are genuinely interested in building a connection—not just getting a free lunch.
It’s okay to be a nice guy—without being taken for granted.
Be seen. Be present. Be valued.
Build real confidence through shared, meaningful experiences.
Her perspective.
No more endless swiping.
Connect with people who want real relationships.
No pressure. No pre-judgements.
Just mutual respect and being treated as equals.
For those seeking true connection—not just a hookup.
Wondering if our adventure dating style is right for you? Let’s find out!
Other dating methods not working out? It’s time to try something real.
So are we. That’s why we’re offering a refreshing alternative: fun, no-pressure experiences for singles and couples—where the only expectation is to enjoy the moment.
Let’s be real: we can’t solve everyone’s dating problems. But for those who find online dating draining, superficial, or just not working—it’s time to try something different.
At iD8u, we believe in using technology to help people connect the old-fashioned way—dating real people, in person. And because dating should be exciting, we’ve paired it with adventure.
If you’re fun, energetic, spontaneous, and love trying new things, you’re going to have a smashing time on our dating adventures.
Because what better way to get to know someone than by doing something together? See how they handle a challenge—laugh in real time but also observe their moments of frustration. Frustration is a crucial part of personal growth; it’s the opposite of comfort and reveals how someone copes when things don’t go smoothly. Bond through shared experience, not just conversation.
Our adventure dating approach is modern but grounded in timeless values — even ancient ones. We combine today’s tools with age-old wisdom about connecting face-to-face, sharing experiences, and letting relationships grow naturally. It’s about balancing the best of both worlds to help you build something real.
We want you to try and prioritise the adventure at hand rather than the dating aspect; chemistry usually happens when least expected and when not forced. We’re creating the environment and opportunity that it may happen — show others who you truly are through actions in doing and less talking.
We get it—this won’t be for everyone. And that’s okay. If you’re looking for endless swiping, text banter, or virtual chats, this might not be your thing.
But if you’re ready to spend less time online and more time in real life, making genuine connections and unforgettable memories — Welcome to iD8u.
We don’t profit from screen time. We believe in people time.
Not just for singles —
great for couples too!
Our dating adventures and experiences aren’t just for singles — they’re perfect for couples too, whether you're newly together or long-time partners. You might be surprised what you’ll discover about each other when you step into something new together.
Join us to explore how shared adventures can deepen your connection, spark fresh energy, and create lasting memories in your relationship.
Get valuable dating feedback and improve!
Do we guarantee love?
No—because no one truly can. And honestly, you shouldn’t want that. What we do offer is a space where love has the chance to grow—through shared experiences, real-world connections, and authentic moments. If it doesn’t lead to love, that’s okay too. You can’t force chemistry. And you shouldn’t have to.
Still finding dating a challenge?
Check out our blog for real talk, helpful tips, and honest insights on how to navigate the dating world with confidence.
And here’s what makes iD8u stand out—we’re the only dating platform that offers valuable feedback from people you’ve actually dated. That kind of insight can help you grow, spot patterns, and move toward more meaningful connections.
Still feeling stuck?
It might be time to work with a dating coach for more personalised support. We’re here to help you grow—whatever stage you’re at.
Dating struggles.
“I’m not much of a talker, more of a do-er and like to meet someone who is similar.”
— Kris (28), Software Developer
“My time is very limited, so spending hours chatting to someone online isn’t what I want to be doing.”
— Jo (33), Entrepreneur
“I can’t seem to get past the first date.”
— Sam (31), Accountant
“Online dating is too superficial for me, they are never what they seem.”
— Rene (29), HR Assistant
“I’m tired of filling in long dating profiles and answering numerous questions.”
— Fi (25), Graphics Designer
“We’ve been together for 9 years and it doesn’t have the same excitement as it used to.”
— Anna (37) & Sergey (39), Housewife & Investment Banker
“We’re here to bring dating back to where it belongs—real life.”
— Hoi & Derek, Founders of iD8u.